Setting goals is something we are all familiar with, in many facets of our lives. From the time we are kids in school, we learn about the importance of goal setting. That said, sometimes I find when I am busy managing my professional career, trying to raise two well-rounded boys, and keeping our household afloat, my equestrian goals seem to be the first to take a backseat.

When the temperature drops and daylight hours shorten, the onset of winter can bring that familiar sinking feeling for many equestrians — especially if you don’t have access to a heated indoor arena. Cold, dark days make enjoying our equestrian lifestyles more challenging, and staying motivated takes a little extra effort. This is something I have felt all my life, and I honestly believe it’s at least partially why I struggle with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Suddenly, the thing that brings me happiness — my horses — becomes more difficult to enjoy.

Why not get back into riding and competing while balancing a full-time job and raising two young boys?

It is likely very rare that any equestrian, no matter the discipline, has navigated the highs and lows of life with horses without ever experiencing self-doubt. Sometimes these are fleeting moments, and sometimes they can feel significant enough to make you consider stepping away altogether. Recently, I experienced something that seemed to combine both.