How to Get and Keep Your Horse’s Attention
By Jonathan Field
My horse is great in the arena, but easily distracted as soon as we go out of the ring.
He’s good when he’s by himself, but when there are other horses around, my horse’s mind is not with me.
My horse is fine when his herd-mate is nearby, but as soon as we try to separate he loses his mind!
Sometimes he’s with me… and other times it’s like I’m not even there.
If you can relate to any of these statements, the tips in this article will help you understand your horse – the ultimate tourist – and how to get his attention.
As I’ve traveled around doing horse expos and clinics over the past 18 years, I have found that the number one issue people are dealing with is how to get and keep their horse’s attention.
First, a few factors to help explain why your horse might be so interested in everything else but you, especially in new environments or situations. It is important to look at this from the perspective of the horse as a prey animal. When a horse is in a situation where he is unable to find the feelings, comforts, and focus he would get with his herd-mates, he becomes overly perceptive of everything around him and goes into survival mode. Now he is thinking and acting on an instinct that tells him to send his radar (attention) way out to see what’s out there that could get him, or to find his herd-mates. Our job is to teach the horse to focus on the rider and find the comfort with the rider that he would find with the leader of the herd.
We have all been on a horse that was physically present but mentally trying to be somewhere else. This is the horse on a trail ride that begins to prance and jig when his buddy trots ahead, or when he is turned towards home. This horse’s mind is elsewhere and not with the rider.
The answer to getting and keeping the horse’s attention is found in what we expect of him and how we train him on a daily basis, rather than in what we do in a particularly frustrating moment.
The horse’s attention should be consistently with you whether you’re unloading him from the trailer in a new location, or at home taking him out the door of the arena, when he’s near his herd-mates, or in the barn. If I’m spending a significant amount of time with my horse but he’s not really with me, what will he be like when we are faced with some adversity and he becomes worried?
What does it look and feel like to have your horse’s attention, and how do you get it? To help explain, I’ll share the story of a rider and horse at one of our horsemanship camps at our James Creek Ranch. The horse is a mare named Diva. She is owned by Eunice, and it was their first time in the wide open spaces of a working ranch. I don’t think Diva blinked once during her entire first two days after arriving at the ranch. There were a whole lot of new things for a “city horse” to look at – cattle, horses, large open pastures, and even the odd deer or bear passing through.
When we started on our first group ride to the upper meadow, the look in Diva’s eyes intensified and she became a lot for Eunice to handle. The first part of the ride was not fun for either of them. And just before things began to escalate, I asked Eunice if I could ride Diva and show her and the group how to deal with the situation. She gladly threw me the reins!
Other riders that day were dealing with similar emotions in their horses. Fortunately, this meadow is only a short ride from the home ranch, allowing me to stop and help the riders get this issue resolved before carrying on. My goal is to help everyone feel safe so they can enjoy their ride.
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When I mounted Diva, my intention was to help her in that moment, but most importantly to help Eunice and the other students understand what to do, and to keep it up so they don’t lose the connection a little while later.
Here you can see Diva was very disconnected from her rider, Eunice. She was distracted – looking at everything, grabbing a bite to eat along the way, and just not focussed on her rider. I don’t like to see someone riding a horse like this in any environment, and even more so out in the open. Things can happen so quickly out there that next thing you know the horse is bolting home with or without the rider! Photo: Robin Duncan Photography
As soon as I mounted Diva, I focussed on where I wanted to go, thinking of a very clear path at a forward trot on a small to medium size circle. To help me be clear with my focus, I picked a bush to trot forward around. She was fast and pushing on the bit, ears with me then not with me, and trying to pull back towards home on the circle. Sound familiar? Photo: Robin Duncan Photography
Here you can see she was everywhere but with me. Head up, rough to ride, and braced. Not a fun ride, and not safe either. Photo: Robin Duncan Photography
Making sure to go both ways, I kept her on this circle and now asked her to bend a bit, and touched my inside leg and rein now and then until her inside ear and eye looked back at me. She had to give me her attention before I could get her to relax and accept my direction. At this stage I expected her attention to come and go. She would look at me and then away from me, but by persistent circling left, circling right, continually focused, even bumping the inside rein now and then, I insisted she take a look at me. Then I released and allowed her a moment to realize that being with me was a good thing, a focal point for her. Photo: Robin Duncan Photography
After only a short time the change was starting to happen. The nice horse Eunice remembered from home was returning. It is important to note that while doing this you should not have constant tension on the reins. If the rider pulls the horse will pull harder, and this can become dangerous as the horse braces against the rider and the brakes get burned up. By asking for the eye and ear, then the path, the speed, the bend and the balance, followed by releasing the rein aids, Diva had a chance to relax and think for herself. Photo: Robin Duncan Photography
Now it’s time for her first reward and rest. I found a nice change in Diva so I rewarded her by going to the centre of the circle and resting her nose over the very bush we had been circling. This circling program was taught to her back in the arena at home. Resting there now allows her emotions to come back down and connect with her rider. I moved on to other things only after this was working in the small world around this circle here. Photo: Robin Duncan Photography
The best part of the whole day for me was when Eunice got to enjoy her horse on our beautiful ranch. And even better was knowing she had the skills to reconnect with Diva if need be. Photo: Robin Duncan Photography
I have no problem with a horse looking out and checking out his surroundings. That’s natural. The issue is when I can’t get his ear or eye back to me. When that happens I don’t have a connection, and things can become out of control in a hurry.
Even when you’re home in the arena, learn to be continuously aware of when your horse is looking around. Ask yourself: Is the horse looking and can you get his attention back? Or is he looking and is his attention completely gone!
If the horse is looking and his attention is completely gone, go back to the programs and the patterns he knows, bump the rein, tap your leg, go so far as to completely stop all forward activity to disengage the hindquarters. Boss him around and get his feet moving where you need them to be until he begins to pay attention again and focuses on you. I will also do this if I think it’s simply a leadership issue and a horse is just not interested in what I’m doing as much as he’s interested in his surroundings. My goal is to prove to my horse that I do have some plans in mind that he needs to hear me on.
After all, I am riding a horse that can bolt and take me over a bank or into oncoming traffic. It’s serious if I can’t get his attention on me.
Main Photo: Robin Duncan Photography